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If it works, I’ll be cruising through meet-ups on a kind of irresistible autopilot. My four o’clock, J from Lovestruck, is an attractive career woman in her forties. Arranging dates in a small geographical area is vital if you’re stacking, but timing is a minefield. I dribble out the same chat and by the fourth date, I just want to go home.
But there’s a lot of catching up to do, as I discover when I sign up for a dozen sites, apps and singles nights. A couple of hours beforehand I have a pep talk with dating expert Hayley Quinn, who warns me that coffee dates often seem like job interviews. Not a single one of my marathon dates contacts me for a second meet-up. I head to a Mayfair nightclub for speed dating (originaldating.com), counting each four-minute contact as 0.25 of a date.
Hey guys, 14 pages and 2600 words later, it’s finally done – my first free e Book!
I’m excited to announce the launch of The Gentleman’s Guide to Texting Women.
WHAT YOU GET Cajun outlines a system from how to set up your profile to how to ask her out.
Obviously you can expect there to be sections like “Profile Pictures” and “About Me” write-ups, but the real gems are the examples Cajun gives AND the description of how to personalize them. You get box-by-box advice of how to setup your profile, what to include and what to definitely avoid.
(It’s funny how that one little tweak to your profile can get you exponential gains.) He also outlines the major difference between boring profiles and ones girls message.
With that, there is a plethora of message logs included, all real examples of what’s worked for Cajun before.
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